Case file

友情案件,挑一件驗

檢查信任、付出失衡、社交耗電、友情分手和交新朋友的障礙。不是每個認識很久的人都值得續約。

The diagnosis

Why You're Here

友情沒有分手證書,所以很多爛關係會靠「我們認識很久了」續命。這些牌陣幫你看誰真的有出現、哪段關係只剩歷史,以及你是不是又把討好誤認成善良。

Spread map

4 Cards. No hiding places.

01

What's one belief I have about making friends that's keeping me stuck?

02

Where are the people I'd actually vibe with — that I haven't looked yet?

03

What's one small, low-pressure thing I can do this week to meet someone new?

04

What's one thing I need to stop pretending about myself so real people can find me?

Draw the evidence

友情案件,挑一件驗

Focus on the situation you're asking about. Shuffle the deck until it feels right. When ready, draw 4 cards and place them in order.

Focus on your question, then shuffle.

The shuffle is short on purpose. The damage report should not keep you waiting.

Locked evidence

The Spread

Picked Cards

Please pick a card above.
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1. What's one belief I have about making friends that's keeping me stuck?

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2. Where are the people I'd actually vibe with — that I haven't looked yet?

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3. What's one small, low-pressure thing I can do this week to meet someone new?

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4. What's one thing I need to stop pretending about myself so real people can find me?

Read this first

Who This Spread Is For

  • People who want new friends but don't know where to start
  • Anyone who moved, grew, or left a toxic circle and needs fresh connections
  • People who are out of practice — not unlikeable

Questions before the cut

FAQ

Yes. But it's weird and awkward. This spread doesn't pretend otherwise. Card 3 gives you one small, low-pressure step.

Making friends as an adult is weird and awkward. This spread helps you stop waiting and start showing up.