Case file
友情案件，挑一件驗
檢查信任、付出失衡、社交耗電、友情分手和交新朋友的障礙。不是每個認識很久的人都值得續約。
The diagnosis
Why You're Here
友情沒有分手證書，所以很多爛關係會靠「我們認識很久了」續命。這些牌陣幫你看誰真的有出現、哪段關係只剩歷史，以及你是不是又把討好誤認成善良。
Spread map
5 Cards. No hiding places.
What am I afraid will happen if I say no?
Whose approval am I still chasing — and why?
What's one 'yes' I gave recently that I should have said no to?
What's one 'no' I can practice this week — low stakes, just to try?
What would my life look like if I stopped performing for people?
Draw the evidence
友情案件，挑一件驗
Focus on the situation you're asking about. Shuffle the deck until it feels right. When ready, draw 5 cards and place them in order.
Focus on your question, then shuffle.
The shuffle is short on purpose. The damage report should not keep you waiting.
Locked evidence
The Spread
Picked Cards
Please pick a card above.
Read this first
Who This Spread Is For
- People who say yes when they mean no
- Anyone exhausted by their own niceness
- People who want to learn to say no without guilt
Questions before the cut
FAQ
It's not kindness — it's conflict avoidance. And it costs you energy, boundaries, and eventually yourself. Card 5 shows you what life looks like without it.
The problem isn't them — it's that you've never learned to say no without guilt. This spread helps you unlearn that.