Case file

友情案件,挑一件驗

檢查信任、付出失衡、社交耗電、友情分手和交新朋友的障礙。不是每個認識很久的人都值得續約。

The diagnosis

Why You're Here

友情沒有分手證書,所以很多爛關係會靠「我們認識很久了」續命。這些牌陣幫你看誰真的有出現、哪段關係只剩歷史,以及你是不是又把討好誤認成善良。

Spread map

4 Cards. No hiding places.

01

What drains my social battery the fastest — be specific?

02

What actually fills it — that I've been neglecting?

03

What's one boundary I need to set to protect my energy?

04

What's one thing I need to stop feeling guilty about?

Draw the evidence

友情案件,挑一件驗

Focus on the situation you're asking about. Shuffle the deck until it feels right. When ready, draw 4 cards and place them in order.

Focus on your question, then shuffle.

The shuffle is short on purpose. The damage report should not keep you waiting.

Locked evidence

The Spread

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1. What drains my social battery the fastest — be specific?

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2. What actually fills it — that I've been neglecting?

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3. What's one boundary I need to set to protect my energy?

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4. What's one thing I need to stop feeling guilty about?

Read this first

Who This Spread Is For

  • People who feel drained after every social interaction
  • Anyone who's been told they're 'too quiet' or 'need to get out more'
  • People who want to stop apologizing for their social battery

Questions before the cut

FAQ

It's for anyone whose social energy doesn't match what's expected of them. Introverts, ambiverts, burned-out extroverts — all welcome.

You're not broken. You just have a different battery. This spread helps you stop apologizing for it and start managing it.